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yeh drinking is even more useless than I thought. all it does it make me so tired i can’t accomplish anything the rest of the day. 

im glad to know im not missing out by distrusting alcohol.

also good to know alcohol doesn’t make me all full of annnnnger like it does dad

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unclebarts:

blorgblorgblorg:

ladyloveandjustice:

Once he stops generalizing about feminism, I’ll stop pointing out that our culture allows murder, rape and sexual harassment be rampant and often unpunished and act like it’s “abnormal” and “just a few” when 1 in 4 women are raped. We need to stop acting like it’s “just a few” when it’s clearly a culture wide problem, okay? That’s a little more important than getting your feelings hurt by some teenage girls on tumblr. False accusations actually do NOT happen often statistically. Basically, the worse a man could suffer from a woman statistically is a very low chance of false accusation (which again, incredibly unlikely, since the stigma a woman has to deal with when she is raped or sexually harrassed and accusations of “asking for it” is so horrible that MOST VICTIMS are afraid to come forth), 

The worst that could happen to you at the hands of a woman re: rape is the incredibly unlikely possibility of being falsely accused. That’s 2 out of 100 reported rapes that make it to trial, compared to 1 out of 4 women being raped.

The worst that could happen to us at the hands of a man? Raped and murdered. An extremely high possibility of it. With several reported instances of being murdered specifically for rejecting a man’s sexual advances. In Canada, a man burst into engineering class, declared all the women there feminists, and shot them. A man has declared all women evil and killed them on several occassions.

You’ll forgive us if your concerns about tumblr feminism hurting your feelings or men being generalized. You get your feelings hurt. We get killed. And unless you’re fighting to change that, you’re part of the problem.

My mother reported being molested and the authorities did nothing. The teachers saw me being assaulted and did nothing in high school. 

Trust me. Men are not in trouble. Forgive us if my heart doesn’t bleed for you.

 i decided to argue with a meathead on youtube who was going on about false accusations and I’m not sure why. This will be my last word on the subject.

this is a pretty excellent post

im p sure the worst thing that can happen to a man at the hands of a woman re: rape is getting raped

seems quite a bit worse than getting falsely accused to me and also it’s something that actually fucking happens

I should make it clear I was talking about things with really high statistical probability. Female-on-male rape is not anywhere near as likely male-on-female, however, it is true that it does happen (and we don’t know how much is unreported). 

You are right that I wasn’t incredibly clear on that point, and I apologize. It was a hurried response in a youtube argument. And I was drunk. I was a little drunken baby who didn’t want to put so much effort in the comment by looking up the statistical likelihood of a female assailant, so I flubbed it. I will edit it. 

I also noted in my tags that domestic abuse happened to men, but it was a separate situation. 

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good night

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i always wondered what kinda drunk id be apparently alcohol just makes me somewhat normal but super sleepy good to know

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ana2199 said: I couldn't find the article online, but it's definitely explored in detail on the book "Why does he do that?" by Lundy Bancroft. He goes into the several types of abusers and explains their thought process that leads them to believe they're the martyres in the relationship (it's linked to their sense of entitlement and lack of empathy for their partners). I recommend the book, it's got a ton of information and is well explained, but he cites cases he worked with so it can get a little heavy.

Thanks! Posted for reference.

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I wrote that three page paper in an hour im like some kind of monster

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just go watch the movie. i know its not the best but the scenery is good?

The work deadline is in 4 hours so yeah i do not have time. Nor would I watch it again for a 36 dollar job. Memories and a summary will have to serve me well.

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ana2199 said: You mentioned the issue of men not reporting assault in the tags, and I'm not sure if you know (and think it's worth sharing) that it's actually interesting how with men real victims of abuse often don't report, and on the other hand, a large number of men report abuse after not being served their dinner punctually or other small things.

I…was not aware of that, but just judging from my dad it sounds plausible. If you have a link to the study or something because that sounds like an interesting read

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i have to write a 3 page paper on inception

why did i do this to myself

"what themes does this share with nolans other movies"

dead women? yes. dead women. that will be a paragraph

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Once he stops generalizing about feminism, I’ll stop pointing out that our culture allows murder, rape and sexual harassment be rampant and often unpunished and act like it’s “abnormal” and “just a few” when 1 in 4 women are raped. We need to stop acting like it’s “just a few” when it’s clearly a culture wide problem, okay? That’s a little more important than getting your feelings hurt by some teenage girls on tumblr. False accusations actually do NOT happen often statistically. Basically, the worse a man could suffer from a woman statistically is a very low chance of false accusation (which again, incredibly unlikely, since the stigma a woman has to deal with when she is raped or sexually harrassed and accusations of “asking for it” is so horrible that MOST VICTIMS are afraid to come forth), 

The worst that could happen to you at the hands of a woman re: rape is the incredibly unlikely possibility of being falsely accused.  That’s 2 out of 100 reported rapes that make it to trial, compared to 1 out of 4 women being raped. There’s also the much lower likelihood of being raped by a woman, since only 6.3 percent of assailants are female. Clearly, there’s a cultural issue with men here.

The worst that could happen to us at the hands of a man? Raped and murdered. An extremely high possibility of it. With several reported instances of being murdered specifically for rejecting a man’s sexual advances. In Canada, a man burst into engineering class, declared all the women there feminists, and shot them. A man has declared all women evil and killed them on several occassions.

You’ll forgive us if your concerns about tumblr feminism hurting your feelings or men being generalized. You get your feelings hurt. We get killed. And unless you’re fighting to change that, you’re part of the problem.

My mother reported being molested and the authorities did nothing. The teachers saw me being assaulted and did nothing in high school. 

Trust me. Men are not in trouble. Forgive us if my heart doesn’t bleed for you.
 

 i decided to argue with a meathead on youtube who was going on about false accusations and I’m not sure why. This will be my last word on the subject.